its a girl

[Coffeebean]

hey guys i thought you may like to share the news that i am going to be the mother of a little girl. I want to thank you all who have been with me during the last 4 months of difficulty and tears and to let you know that i am here for you to as we all struggle with the difficult things that life is throwing our way. I hope you are all coping and getting throught the ups and downs that are being thrown in our direction. My H and I are still ticking along but it is so hard as i have no idea why he is still here as it must be because of the baby but he is very excited about the baby very loving (which is most weird) and currently painting rooms for the new arrival. I don't know if he is still in contact with ow but he doesn't seem to be but just one day at a time right. My little girl is going to be called Josie Louba and i have a list of things i'm going to do for her. she'll have piano, guitar and clarient lessons (all taught by her talented mother :)) go jet sking with her father and horse riding with her grandmother in addition to which she will be giving tap ballet and dance lessons as did we. Obviously if she doens't want any of these she won't do them but she will at least have the opportunity :) Hopefully and by the grace of God she will also be the centre of a happy family with a mother and father together and happy. but whether that be or not she will always be in a home where she is loved. Please pray for my family and let me know any pray requests you have. God willing we will all get through this whether it be with the people we love or whether without them as God wills who always knows what is best for us.

[Mike56]

CB - Wonderful news and it's grand to hear all your plans and hopes for the future.

Mike

[Helen_uk]

What wonderful news, thankyou for sharing that with us !


I am sooo jealous ! I always wanted a little girl, I love my two sons to pieces but I wanted a daughter so that I could experience the mother /daughter relationship I never had with my mum.

Josie Louba is a very pretty name, where does the Louba come from ? I wish you all the happiness in the world and I hope that all your dreams for her come true.

Hugs

Helen xx

[jo71]

C/B....that is WONDERFUL news! How exciting! Thanks for sharing that! I love the name. That is so good too that you are planning to give her many opportunities. I will certainly pray for you and your family. I love when I read your posts because it almost sounds like things may actually work out for you and you h. I will keep praying. Just don't give up, either of you...you have so much to fight for!
Jo

[Coffeebean]

thanks a lot :) we got louba because i want the lu which is my mother's family name and h wants louba cause he likes the name which is taken from my cousin's name loubaba. Josie is h's choice cause he wants to follow his grandfather's Name joseph he really loves his grandfather. Thanks for your kind words Jo i am not always sure where we are heading but pray that it will work. Two boys helen? That must be a handful i would like my 2nd child (if we ever have one) to be a boy. I guess we should just have this one first :) Having a little girl was the great news for yesterday. Today's good news is i was giving a parking ticket today £50 and managed to get it revoked (woho) why should we let them all take all our joy from us with their rubbish on whether they are happy or not. Lets finding a little sunshine through the rain and make a rainbow (promise from God) what about you guys? :) :)

[Helen_uk]

Hi CB

Yep, 2 boys can be a handful ! There was 6 years between them though so I only had to cope with one lot of tantrums at a time ! They are 23 and 17 now ( where does the time go ??? ) One has completed UNI and is in a good stable job ( he hates it , it's boring, but he likes the big pay packet ! )and the youngest is about to fly the nest to go to Worcester UNI in September. Enjoy your little girl CB because before you know it she will be grown.

Good news about the parking ticket I LOVE it when you manage to slap down authority !

Take care.

Helen x

[Anne22]

Congratulation C/B - so pleased for you and sooooooooooooooo nice to hear some good news here!!!

I also got a p ticket on my bday recently and am awaiting whether they will let me off!!!!! Fingers crossed!!!!

Take good care of yourself

Anne22 xx

[Coffeebean]

rotten time to get a ticket i hate seeing thoes things stuck on the car. I had a really nice suprise today - i told my h not to bother getting me an easter egg this year because he had bought me an ipod and - hows this for contrary - he not only got me an egg but also an easter mug and large pizza. I had a long conversation with my mum yesterday about all the changes going on and how nicely h is behaving but that i can't let go of what he has put me through. She says you prepare for the worst and pray for the best. I shouldn't be sat here i should be cleaning the house but i just can't be bothered so i think i will chat to you guys for a little longer instead. How are you all doing. Did you get the ticket renounced anne22

[Anne22]

Hi Coffeebean

I havent heard a thing yet about the ticket - hope I never will!!!

Your mum sounds like a very wise lady - just be careful and take good care of yourself!!!
Forget about the h/work - it will always be there!!!!

Keep posting and HUGs to you

Anne22 xx

[Helen_uk]

C/B and Anne

Steve left me this weekend, has taken his stuff and gone. Was in hospital when he cleared his stuff out.I found out last night I'm pregnant I'm bloody 43 for gods sake. He has switched off his phone and refuses to talk to me.

I just joined the ranks of people on here who haven't a clue what to do or where to go.From what I've been told, he's gone with the daughter of the woman who bought our dog.

Helen

[David H]

C/B and Anne

Steve left me this weekend, has taken his stuff and gone. Was in hospital when he cleared his stuff out.I found out last night I'm pregnant I'm bloody 43 for gods sake. He has switched off his phone and refuses to talk to me.

I just joined the ranks of people on here who haven't a clue what to do or where to go.From what I've been told, he's gone with the daughter of the woman who bought our dog.

Helen

((((Helen)))) Prayers for you tonight

David