Unlucky
23rd August 2001, 02:55 PM
:eek: Hello everyone, Talk about a bad situation I had a front row seat to catching my new husband with another woman. There were alot of problems going on at christmas last year with my ex taking temp custody of my 2 girls and trying to make me get a divorce ect. T was made to stay away from our new house as long as I had visitation with children and until the case went to court and he was seeking help from outpatient AA. Well he had called to say he loved me and that the friends house he had been staying at was having a party and he could'nt stay there because he was affraid that he would drink. (he was drinking already) anyway he just said he had to leave there and he would call later so we might get to see each other. Well I waited for a call thinking he sounded funny(womens intuition)and it was getting late at night I had returnded girls to their father and thought to call hotels in the area and I found him at the holiday inn they rang his room and he answered we talked for a moment and I ask if he was drunk? He of course answered no but I said he was and we talked for a few and I told him to come home with in an hour and asked him what room number he was in he told me and I said come home or else I m coming to get you. Well he did'nt show up so off I went 20 minutes later I am standing at his hotel room door and when I said his name and tapped on the door with my foot the door wasnt locked and swung open so I said T are you in here and are you ok? As I finished my sentence I started to walk into the room and there in all its glory was the nastiest woman I could imagine getting dressed and the next thing I know was alot of blood and none of it mine I blacked out because of the shock and went crazy.. I did'nt even have a chance to catch myself or to get a grip on the situation until I finally stopped with her and turned to my husband who was still drunk lying in bed and I pulled the covers off him and he was naked and the blackout came again and I trashed him and the whole hotel room before I came around. (NO one heard a thing)My so called husband says he never had sex with her and she was leaving because he turned her down. I don't believe him on this one because I started seeing him when he was married to a girl I went to school with and it was a matter of 1 hour before he was naked in the back of my jeep and it did happen with us.So I would like to hear what some others have to say about did he have sex or did'nt he???? Help!!! We are still together and there has been no contact with other woman and T swears at the moment of truth with other woman he couldnt have sex because it hit him how much he loves me and couldnt hurt me. Like the scene I saw wasnt going to scar me or what? Why did he tell me the room # and why wasnt the door shut????? Unlucky