marriedbrunette30
23rd February 2007, 10:01 PM
Ok,my husband and I have been married for 10 years.We have one beautiful child together,and have been very happy. It hasnt been a bed of roses always,as he has 3 other children from 2 different women. He had them when he was very young and irresponsible.
So,I've quite often had to deal with his exes. :mad:
This past October,my husband got a call from his uncle saying that one of his ex girlfriends has been calling there asking for his number. He said he told her that he was MARRIED and that he couldnt give out that info.
December,2 days before Christmas, a weird looking letter comes in the mail.It kinda looks like a bill,so I just open it.
It is from the ex girlfriend!
saying,I have been looking everywhere for you for years. I miss you,and I really want to talk to you. I hope you arent married,but if you are I will not bother you.
After talking to my husband about it,and getting HIS APPROVAL,I called her number and left a message saying that "yes,she HAS found him,but he IS happily married,so she can move one with her life"
Last week,the post office now gives a notice that my husband has a RESTRICTED delivery by her!!!:mad::mad::mad: Meaning,only HE can sign for it!
Oh,I was mad....that she actually thought that i wouldnt know or see it.
Anyways,THIS one was a bit more explicit.
Said he could e-mail her if it was hard for him to talk cuz his wife was around.That his wife seems jealous! That she CANT STOP thinking about him.And she signed it LOVE ALWAYS.
Please,Please,please tell me some other woman out there would be bothered by this! Tell me,guys,if an ex boyfriend did this,would you not be mad???
Of course,I'am NOT mad at my husband at all. He didnt ask for this. IT HAS BEEN 17 YEARS since has seen this woman for crying out loud!
So why is she being so desperate and trying to steal my husband now?
So,my husband called and left a message saying he is not intrested in whatever it is she is offering,that he has been married the last 10 years and it's going to stay that way.To leave him alone,stop calling places about him and stop sending him letters"
I also e-mailed her telling her my husband and I have no secrets and that i know everything her little letter said. That she has ALOT of nerve thinking my husband would deceive me by going behind my back to e-mail her in private so i wouldnt know.
I told her that I'am NOT jealous of HER by any means,I just dont like people who cant respect someone else's marriage.
So,am I wrong for doing this? I had to get out my feelings! I didnt sleep or eat all week thinking about this homewrecker trying to steal my husband. I have been a wreck.
I do trust him and think he wouldnt cheat,but you never know when temptation keeps getting thrown in his face . I'am WAAAY better looking then her too,but I know that it doesnt always matter to a man. That if they want the booty they will take no matter what it looks like.
Please tell me I'm not wrong for feeling this way? How would any of you feel if this happend to you? And what if this B**** doesnt go away???:eek:
So,I've quite often had to deal with his exes. :mad:
This past October,my husband got a call from his uncle saying that one of his ex girlfriends has been calling there asking for his number. He said he told her that he was MARRIED and that he couldnt give out that info.
December,2 days before Christmas, a weird looking letter comes in the mail.It kinda looks like a bill,so I just open it.
It is from the ex girlfriend!
saying,I have been looking everywhere for you for years. I miss you,and I really want to talk to you. I hope you arent married,but if you are I will not bother you.
After talking to my husband about it,and getting HIS APPROVAL,I called her number and left a message saying that "yes,she HAS found him,but he IS happily married,so she can move one with her life"
Last week,the post office now gives a notice that my husband has a RESTRICTED delivery by her!!!:mad::mad::mad: Meaning,only HE can sign for it!
Oh,I was mad....that she actually thought that i wouldnt know or see it.
Anyways,THIS one was a bit more explicit.
Said he could e-mail her if it was hard for him to talk cuz his wife was around.That his wife seems jealous! That she CANT STOP thinking about him.And she signed it LOVE ALWAYS.
Please,Please,please tell me some other woman out there would be bothered by this! Tell me,guys,if an ex boyfriend did this,would you not be mad???
Of course,I'am NOT mad at my husband at all. He didnt ask for this. IT HAS BEEN 17 YEARS since has seen this woman for crying out loud!
So why is she being so desperate and trying to steal my husband now?
So,my husband called and left a message saying he is not intrested in whatever it is she is offering,that he has been married the last 10 years and it's going to stay that way.To leave him alone,stop calling places about him and stop sending him letters"
I also e-mailed her telling her my husband and I have no secrets and that i know everything her little letter said. That she has ALOT of nerve thinking my husband would deceive me by going behind my back to e-mail her in private so i wouldnt know.
I told her that I'am NOT jealous of HER by any means,I just dont like people who cant respect someone else's marriage.
So,am I wrong for doing this? I had to get out my feelings! I didnt sleep or eat all week thinking about this homewrecker trying to steal my husband. I have been a wreck.
I do trust him and think he wouldnt cheat,but you never know when temptation keeps getting thrown in his face . I'am WAAAY better looking then her too,but I know that it doesnt always matter to a man. That if they want the booty they will take no matter what it looks like.
Please tell me I'm not wrong for feeling this way? How would any of you feel if this happend to you? And what if this B**** doesnt go away???:eek: