Slurm
28th January 2007, 09:29 PM
I found out over Christmas that my wife is experiencing problems with our marriage, after 17 years it was news to me. To make a long story short she says she is emotionally mess up and I can understand that, her feelings are her own and I can't change them, she says she loves me but is not sure how she feels about me anymore. I love her to death and I want stay with her for ever.
Now here is the problem, I was putting laundry today and I normally don't put hers away in the drawers because she says I put everything in the wrong drawers, and I thought I would be nice and try to do it right today. While I was putting the clothes away I came across a bag with sex toys in it as well as an envelope of money. I was extremely curious, now I a computer techinician and here is where I stepped over the line I think, I logged into her email at work and checked messages, there are a few emails regarding the money, she works a second job and she said she is keeping a stash for herself, not letting me know about it. The other was to the women who does her bikini waxing, saying how she bought her a couple of toys and was waiting to bring them to her. The email also indicated that my wife might have feelings for this woman. Should I confront her about it, it is tearing me apart. We are trying to mend our relationship but I think this is too much for me to bear.
Now here is the problem, I was putting laundry today and I normally don't put hers away in the drawers because she says I put everything in the wrong drawers, and I thought I would be nice and try to do it right today. While I was putting the clothes away I came across a bag with sex toys in it as well as an envelope of money. I was extremely curious, now I a computer techinician and here is where I stepped over the line I think, I logged into her email at work and checked messages, there are a few emails regarding the money, she works a second job and she said she is keeping a stash for herself, not letting me know about it. The other was to the women who does her bikini waxing, saying how she bought her a couple of toys and was waiting to bring them to her. The email also indicated that my wife might have feelings for this woman. Should I confront her about it, it is tearing me apart. We are trying to mend our relationship but I think this is too much for me to bear.