should i ever trust him again

[denisse68]

Hi everybody.I have found out that my husband is chatting with a few women throught phone chats.He said he sorry but it is not really his fault becouse a friend of his gave him these womens' numbers and it was just a joke so he wouldn't do it again.And he is comletly inosent.I sow the sms on his phone and i sow him texting 24/7.I feel like I want to leave him and that I do not love and trust him anymore.I don't really know what to belive.

[jojo58]

Dear Denisse,
Hang in there and do not act too quickly.
What he has been doing is not excusable, however if there are a number of women involved and up to now your husband has been trustworthy then he has to show you that he is being honest again and prove his loyalty to you.
You are angry and disorientated , that is normal. Remember he has disabused your trust. Use this site to get support, it certainly has helped me.
First he has to admit it is his fault, not his friends, for chatting to these women. Also ask why did he not chat/txt with you if he had something to say.
Also point out that these chats/txts usually lead to other more serious betrayals. Its a type of addiction, and often gets out of hand.
When he understands what he has really endangered by this act then there is a chance for the 2 of you.
Jojo

[denisse68]

Hi thanks for writing back.I understand your point.I just feel so sad and lost and I do not want to go out or phone any of my friends or family.I feel like i'd like to isolate myself completly.Maybe I need time.:o