MitcherNeaf
16th November 2006, 03:31 AM
Hi there new to the forum, heres my story. Was in 11th grade, hooked up with this girl, we decided we liked eachother, 2 months later she got pregnanat. We decided after graduation we were happy with what we had and before i go to college and into a stressful situation, we get married to help us through these hard times, so we have some type of attachment and it was harder than just getting up and leaving. Well im in my 3rd semester of Nursing school (BTW im the male) and it is a very stressful profession. We got into a pretty good fight the other night and now she has come to the realization that she is no longer happy, and is beyond the point of wanting to try to make things better. We have only been married 1 year 3 months, and i am 21 and she is 20. She feels she is too imature, and wants space, but is not sure what she wants. She just feels very firmly that she does not want to fix this. I am devestated, i can't sleep, i cry all the time, all my friends realize someting is wrong with out me even saying anything.
I am begging her to give me one more try. She says we have tried before, but what we do is forgive eachother, and the next day never talk aboutit. We ignore it and continue a few days of a decent marriage and back to the same old fighting. I felt that 3 days ago, our mariage was strong. We were watching tv about Britney Spears getting a divorce, and i said to her, i dont think we will ever get one i think we have a good relationship, the next day, she is gone.
I dont know what to do. She is like a brick wall, she wont budge and give me another chance. I am willing to go see someone, to start opening up, i have already set up a plan in my head to where we can do something fun together atleast 1 time a week if not 2 times just us. I need her here for me, and I dont want to do this to my 2 year old daughter. We are still being friendly and she says itst important to her that we continue our friendship, but she doesn't love me anymore, and that her love is gone for me. I need some help badly, im only 21 and not very good at this anyway. I dont want to turn to family because they were against our marriage in the first place and dont want an "I told you so" type speech. Please where can i get help, and how do i get her to go wtih me. Also, we are financially set back, so anything that would not cost us a fortune would be great, we are not able to afford a doctor.
thankyou
Mitchell
I am begging her to give me one more try. She says we have tried before, but what we do is forgive eachother, and the next day never talk aboutit. We ignore it and continue a few days of a decent marriage and back to the same old fighting. I felt that 3 days ago, our mariage was strong. We were watching tv about Britney Spears getting a divorce, and i said to her, i dont think we will ever get one i think we have a good relationship, the next day, she is gone.
I dont know what to do. She is like a brick wall, she wont budge and give me another chance. I am willing to go see someone, to start opening up, i have already set up a plan in my head to where we can do something fun together atleast 1 time a week if not 2 times just us. I need her here for me, and I dont want to do this to my 2 year old daughter. We are still being friendly and she says itst important to her that we continue our friendship, but she doesn't love me anymore, and that her love is gone for me. I need some help badly, im only 21 and not very good at this anyway. I dont want to turn to family because they were against our marriage in the first place and dont want an "I told you so" type speech. Please where can i get help, and how do i get her to go wtih me. Also, we are financially set back, so anything that would not cost us a fortune would be great, we are not able to afford a doctor.
thankyou
Mitchell