My wife walked out

[Springheeled Jack]

Divorce papers came.

No reasons just excuses from her. I love her soo much it is tearing me apart. Please pray for us that we can sort this out.

Please Lord give me the courage to get through this. How can we just be friends after this.

Please help me to see a sign that things will get better for me.

[vwclarie1]

Did you miss a sign? She left for a reason, did you communicate with her?

[Springheeled Jack]

She left because of an argument were I had enough. She was treating me like I was nothing. I said if she couldnt love me like a wife, treat me like husband, then I didnt want her there (intending to shake us both up with just words) She left.
After a month she came back promising a new start. Things are just the same, ok at the beginnig but they have gone back to the way they were. She caught 13year old stepson smoking weed. A week later she tells me!!
I have always bee open and honest with her. I found out that the day before he daughter was offered weed by her idiot boyfriend. I found out by less that honest means and my wife doesnt know that I do know. She has lied to save her kids.
Now, I just wish that she would realise what she is doing to our marriage. I beginning to be sorry she ever came back..

[ann01]

IN my opinion..I think you have to talk things with your wife. Ask why did she not tell you earlier. Others might just be acting out of fear. Ask her reason then tell her whats on your mind.. If she does not listen and make things worse maybe you two have to see counseling.

Sometimes a good communication is all there is..Good luck