Taking space in marriage

[@-Dawn-@]

is this common, he wants to take some space and is going to stay with a freind. He says this is working it out ect. Hes having a hard time dealing with something I did 3 years ago. I regret what I have done and never ment to hurt him, I would do anything to take the pain away, he is positive this space will help and that he will only be takinga short time. Has anyone else tooks pace??

[rodger]

What did you do to hurt him? Was it an affair, if so why did you do it?


This may seem abrupt but you need to be able to understand what he's going through and the only way to do that is to be honest with yourself in the first place.

I assume I am in a similar situation to your husband, i had my heart ripped out some while ago and the despair is still there!!

Rodger

[jeannie]

I think taking space may be a good thing. I wish my Husband would do it, he dropped the bombshell on Friday he does not think he loves me and maybe a trial separation would be best. I have really tried at the weekend but am falling part, and agreed I would like him to go an sort himself out., Since then he got a little angry and said he was not going to make it easy for me!. He has said I have done nothing wrong so I do not understand that remark.

You cannot sort things out while there is somuch tension, let him go and give youirsleves some breathing space and things may seem a bit clearer.