Husband doesn't want sex

[Joanna]

I've read a few threads where the wife is not interested in sex - my problem is the opposite. My husband is completely uninterested in sex - a situation which has gone on for six years now, since the birth of our son. In that time, we have made love about 5 times!
I feel very depressed about this, especially as I would like another baby.
Whenever I try to talk to him about this, he goes into his "cave" ie he goes all silent and moody, and barely says a word to me for days on end.
I try to be hopeful, but then end up disappointed when nothing happens, again, and end up feeling very hurt, rejected and depressed.
Are there any other women out there who have experienced this?

[ljohnson]

Yes. I am right now. I don't want children, I just want to feel loved.

[alidawn]

Joanna,
Is there anything that you can think of that he mentioned he might like sexually? Maybe you could try meeting him at the door one night in a nice nightgown? Offer to wash his back in the shower?
Just suggestions, but maybe there is something small that you are overlooking to help him get in the mood?
Goodluck :)
Alidawn

[roppelt]

Welcome to the club :(

http://p080.ezboard.com/fsexlessmarriagefrm2

[helenrw200]

My partner of 3 years is not very interested in sex, at least not with me, if you have read my previous posts you will know about the problems we have had with porn. Strangely , since he stopped using the porn our sex life has got worse, or rather I should say more sparse, it's almost as if the porn was an easy gratification but kept his level of sexual interest up, now he simply can't be botherd.

At least that's how it feels.


Helen