DDANN
18th April 2005, 11:43 PM
I have been married for 3 years and together for 5. In the last two years, my H has quit paying any attention to me at all. We have relations maybe once every three months, if we spend any time together the TV has to be on. I have tried in a non confrontational way to discuss this and he always states that I am making things up and that is not the way it is. I know that the last year has been hard, we bought a new business, I keep all the books, I also work full time for a company, and I take on line classes to keep up with my carreer. We have two children one mine from previous and one his from previous.
I feel so alone in my own house, I try so hard to do everything he wants and yet all he does is complain that things are done, or done right. I feel like I give him 150% support and I get nothing in return, He does not want me to go to school so I take on line classes so I am able to do most of the work on my lunch hour as to not to interfere with his schedule. When I push for time alone with him, I get pushed away.
I ran into someone a couple of weeks ago that I have known for a long time. He and I have been talking and txting back and forth, I feel so contected to him. We are both respectful of my marriage but I do not know how much longer I can take the isolation,
May question is how to get back what I had three years ago with getting rejected every time. Any help would be appreciated
I feel so alone in my own house, I try so hard to do everything he wants and yet all he does is complain that things are done, or done right. I feel like I give him 150% support and I get nothing in return, He does not want me to go to school so I take on line classes so I am able to do most of the work on my lunch hour as to not to interfere with his schedule. When I push for time alone with him, I get pushed away.
I ran into someone a couple of weeks ago that I have known for a long time. He and I have been talking and txting back and forth, I feel so contected to him. We are both respectful of my marriage but I do not know how much longer I can take the isolation,
May question is how to get back what I had three years ago with getting rejected every time. Any help would be appreciated