Lost all trust

[Janel]

I have been accused of cheating on my husband and I havenot, Iknow that's what all people in my position say, but I swear on my children that I have not had an affair. I sound desperate, and I know it. I just need to find a way to prove to my husband that I can rebuild that trust. I need to know where to start form here. I have accepted his feelings. He doesn't feel that he can ever trust me again, and I understand that. I just feel that if I really work at it and prove to him that I can be trusted we can make it work. Can anyone help me?

[Alan]

I'm probably the last person to give advice, but the issue of trust is something that is preventing my wifefrom re-joining our family.

She had an EA via text with a friend of ours in the summer ; at the end of Sep she walked out, citing the usual stuff about not liking me etc.

Ironically, one of the reasons she won't come back is her lack of trust in me!!

Anyway for you, all I can suggest is that you won't be able to prove whether or not you did or did not have an affair.

Take some time and talk to your husband. Communication is the key.