fallenstar
23rd September 2004, 07:42 PM
I haven't posted in awhile....things have been crazy. Well, on 8/24 my suspicions of my H having an A were confirmed. We are now separated, we immediatly started MC. He has said these past few wks. that he still isn't sure if he wants back in the M. He's been staying in hotels some, and at our home some so we can keep our 2 yr. old in a normal environment. Recently though, I had an urge to contact OW, conversations was good, I asked if they were still seeing each other and she said no,no,no....and kept apologizing. Fast forward to this week.....His tools (hammer, screwdrivers drill, ect...) are gone and saw a charge on our acct. to home depot for $102. I have a suspicion that she has moved into a home and he's w/ her. I know her D was filed on 9/8. Also, on Mon. this wk., he took off to OK and just got back today. Claims he had to take a check up there to pay for his Harley he just bought (which I know all about). Heres whats making me nervous, his Brother is his asst., my H went to their house this morning at 8:00 to pick him up, said he would drive them to work. He never pops over like that. I'm scared he told his B on the way that he's planning a new life w/ her and wants to D me. My SIL is keeping tabs on everything and will let me know. In the midst of all this drama, he's still very civil w/ me and says "I love you" still. I've been following the Divorce Remedy method and so far not so good. Any advice?????