_honey_
4th September 2004, 05:50 PM
Me and my husband have been married for 7 years. I just recently found out that he was cheating through womens intuition and some investigation. It's been happening since december of 2003 and he claims it ended about 4 months ago. It's hard for me to believe him though. Even though he has never spent the night away from home and never really gave me a reason to think he's cheating. But when I look at the cell phone bill, I just get more upset. He talked to this young woman everyday all day. some conversations 45 minutes long and some 2 minutes long. The 30 minute calls gave him away. He never chats with his male friends like that. That's how I knew it was another woman. I called the girl and she claimed she loves my husband and he loves her and she doesn't care if he is my husband (homewrecker). Then she called me a skinny bitch! I was so heated I turned to him and whaled on his ass. Not understanding why I had to be the topic of conversation with this bitch. Anyway I had to let the young woman down easy I asked her how many nights have he spent withe her? and if he loved her why isn't he with her now. Since I have found out and tried to leave a couple of times, he has been trying to show and prove, but what about my hard time trusting him? When he leaves my mind just wonders. It totally has us arguing almost everyday. I could use some advice.