bridie
1st September 2004, 11:09 PM
Well everyone, this may give you all hope, my husband wants to come back, after almost 6 months apart!
I am in total shock. here is the up-date.
I hadnt heard from him for 4 days, and the last time i saw him he was quite hostile really. We had a huge row, and he left. I tried phoning him over and over, but he wouldnt answer. I thought id blown it. Fast foward to today, and he sent this e.mail.
" bridge, i am so so sorry. ive treated you so badley, and i feel so ashamed. What have i done? i wont blame you if you never want to see me again. i love you more than youll ever know"
Half an hour later, he rings me and asked if he could come over after work. to cut a long story short, he kept saying how sorry he was, how hed made a huge mistake, how much he loved me, etc etc.
Then he said he would do anything to make it all up to me, and would prove he was worth it. He asked if id consider starting again, and that he wouldnt contact me so i could think about it, and for me to let him have an answer when i decide. I said i had a lot to think about, that i couldnt just make a decision like that, and he said he understood, and would wait for as long as it takes! (of course i want to shout yes, and grab him quick, but he dosnt need to know that right now!)
He was crying when he left, something he never does, and sat outside in his car for ages, looking at the house. I cant believe it, after all this time! if this could happen to me, IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU TOO. This from a man who has hardly bothered with me for 6 months.. So , dont give up, if this has happened to me, with all the troubles weve been through, then it can happen to anyone. May let him wait for a little while though, if i can stand it! will keep you informed, bridie
I am in total shock. here is the up-date.
I hadnt heard from him for 4 days, and the last time i saw him he was quite hostile really. We had a huge row, and he left. I tried phoning him over and over, but he wouldnt answer. I thought id blown it. Fast foward to today, and he sent this e.mail.
" bridge, i am so so sorry. ive treated you so badley, and i feel so ashamed. What have i done? i wont blame you if you never want to see me again. i love you more than youll ever know"
Half an hour later, he rings me and asked if he could come over after work. to cut a long story short, he kept saying how sorry he was, how hed made a huge mistake, how much he loved me, etc etc.
Then he said he would do anything to make it all up to me, and would prove he was worth it. He asked if id consider starting again, and that he wouldnt contact me so i could think about it, and for me to let him have an answer when i decide. I said i had a lot to think about, that i couldnt just make a decision like that, and he said he understood, and would wait for as long as it takes! (of course i want to shout yes, and grab him quick, but he dosnt need to know that right now!)
He was crying when he left, something he never does, and sat outside in his car for ages, looking at the house. I cant believe it, after all this time! if this could happen to me, IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU TOO. This from a man who has hardly bothered with me for 6 months.. So , dont give up, if this has happened to me, with all the troubles weve been through, then it can happen to anyone. May let him wait for a little while though, if i can stand it! will keep you informed, bridie