What is in my husband nind?

[Forbid apple]

My husband of 19 years, came back home the long three month trip, refused to kiss and make love to me, and asked for a divorce. I found out that he has a relationship with a hooker oversea. He said he loves the girl deeply both inside out. He wants to divorce me but still wants to live in the house with me and the kids, one 16 year-old girl and 13 year-old boy for another two years. I denied his staying request and asked him to leave the house. Suddently he asked me to let him kiss me, but I did not let him. Someone know what's in his mind.

[Sleepless in CA]

Forbid Apple, what a heart aching situation. i know you must feel physically sick as well as heart broken, I am so sorry for that. I would just ask him, tell him even after 19 years of marriage you can't read his mind(this time). I'm sure part of you may want him to want you, but I know the other can't forget what he did. I agree with not living with you for two years for the childrens sake, they are old enough to deal with this. They may not understand but they can cope, but sacrificing your emotional stability is not an option. First find out whats going on in that head of his, maybe it was a once in a lifetime, out of the country, (literally) experience that he's finding he regrets. But we are just speculating. Ask the man. I'm here to listen. Sleepless in CA

[starmma]

I know it's hard but get rid of him. Hopefully the time you had was good but you have to take care of yourself now. For you and your kids sake.

[from forbid apple]

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