Sonu
7th July 2004, 01:03 PM
I am in a mess. Recently I chanced upon my husband's mobile phone bills.There were too many calls to a number------everyday and long ones.On being confronted he confessed it was a girl but said it was only frndship.However I can't beleive him.He is a person of few words and now I see calls of over 40 50 even 60 minutes.I mean I did not think he could talk for more than 5 min to anyone.He tried his best to convince and pleaded that I should not call this girl.I agreed but then called her after few days as I was desperate to know the truth.She was nice but said she wanted to keep the freindship family types so was insisting on meeting me and wanting my hubby to meet her husband to which my husband refused and they ended few weeks back.Anyway my trust was broken.I have no option and 2 kids so I decided to rebuild.But as the time has passed (it has been 4 months) I have learnt so much my husband was hiding.Like deletion of her no. from mobile everyday,deletion of messages,meeting her by telling me lies about his whereabouts etc.Worst was that he kept saying if I had told you the relationship would be on even now,now you don't beleive me and she doesn't beleive me,now you are upset and she is upset I mean she is everywhere.Moreover he said I got freindly coz she looked gr8 and carried herself well etc.
I have really lost trust and self esteem and feel so humiliated.I mean after 8 years of marriage suddenly this.I am more shocked coz he always pretended to be caring but now I know he always called several times so that I don't call him when he is talking to her.In the bill I saw he always called me minutes before calling her.I feel so low and he blames me for calling her saying I humiliated him.
Our relationship is gone I feel and I feel no better in these months.
I have really lost trust and self esteem and feel so humiliated.I mean after 8 years of marriage suddenly this.I am more shocked coz he always pretended to be caring but now I know he always called several times so that I don't call him when he is talking to her.In the bill I saw he always called me minutes before calling her.I feel so low and he blames me for calling her saying I humiliated him.
Our relationship is gone I feel and I feel no better in these months.