Baby mama drama!!!

[**tameka**]

I am in okinawa japan right now. i am 17 years old (young i know) the guy im with is in the Air Force he is 21. He just went through a divorce and he has a son with his EX :(. I accepted this, i accepted that she will always be around and he will have to see his son. He is on leave right now . . . he went to see his son but he is staying at her house . . . she is 20 years old and still lives with her parents. he's staying there with them. she continuously writes me emails telling me shes been sleeping with him (AND NOT USING THOSE WORDS) :mad:. he wants to marry me when he gets back!!! But he wants to bring his son back so he's telling me to be cool about this whole thing. THIS IS RIDICULOUS!!! i understand he has a child with this woman but he should not be staying at her house and she should not be disrespecting me like that. I trust him because he left me his house, his car, over $500, and he said he wants to marry me when he gets back. They also JUST got divorced so why would he go back with her?!? :confused: this is really confusing and im stressing myself out over this way too much. im wondering whether i should move on or trust him and take him in when he comes home to me. I already have depression and right now i feel so down :( this isnt good for me. Oh . . . also he gave me the number to her house so i could call whenever i wanted but she wont let me call anymore and he either wont get a phone card or doesnt know how to call here . . . i rarely ever get to talk to him and hes been gone for 3 weeks now! I have no idea whats going on. im lucky if i get an email from him. but when i do he always has some wonderful explanation for everything and convinces me to stay . . . am i being nieve or should i trust him . . . do you think shes just playing with my head???

getemtameka@yahoo.com email me!!!

[smackie9]

If this situation upsets you now, think about what it's going to be like when you marry this guy! Your relationship is already off to a bad start and things are just going to get worse:eek:. He has way too much baggage, meaning he has too many unresolved issues with his X-wife. May I suggest getting a cat. Cats don't have X-wives:rolleyes:

[Netta]

Hi! My name is Netta and I am 20 years old, well I had a boy that I was madly in love with his name is Tony and when we first met everything was great. I thought he was the man of my dreams and that we will have a long-term relationship followed up by having a family in the future. So we've been goig together for a good little while. He always use to tell me that he loves me and wanted to be with me and I accepted that because I also had strong feelings for him also. So as the months past everythings going just fine, 3 months later he got locked up for first degree robbery, he calls me that same night telling me that he's in jail and he said that he's right now looking at my picture thinking about me, and how he loves and misses me. So, I took his responses. he tells me to do him a favor to go and see his mother to see if she could help with his bond, so i did and she wasn't there. So the next day he has his baby mama to call me and see did I do it, what type of **** is that so I gave her a piece of my mind telling me since they have a baby him and her are together. So he gets mad at me because she tells him something totally different just to break us up, so now we're not together because believing what his baby mama said, but I don't need him because he didn't have a job, money, no car when I met his ass and she's going to be devestated when her baby is born. So, I hope that his don't never get out of jail. I learned my lesson I would never get involve with a guy who has kids because it gonna cause a lot of drama, when it comes to the mama!!!!!!