Wife wants sex with another man

[Unregistered]

My wife and I have been married for nearly 10 years and neither of us have had any previous sexual partners, we have had our ups and downs recently, but have had a frank discusion about our need and wants from marriage and life in general.

It was during these discussions that my wife said that she would like to have sex with another man, just for the experience.

I must admit that it came as a bit of a shock to me.

Should I allow her to do this or would it lead to complications.?

[Unregistered]

I would definately say NO, HELL NO. That would only be the start of a downhill fall. But, you must ask yourself: would you be able to live with it? Or, would you see her and him together every time you looked at her? The decision is yours to make, but I can't imagine any good would come out of it. And...it seems like there may be bigger problems if she even asked in the first place.

[David Harris]

I think it would be a big mistake for her to have sex with another man.

You should ask yourself why she is feeling this way. After 10 years your love-making is obviously boring her and I think you should try to be a lot more adventurous in bed. God gave us sex to be enjoyed, not merely for making babies

[Fletch]

I've got to agree with David here.

Nothing good will come of her having sex with someone else. Absolutely nothing!

[hold_your_ground]

Are you crazy??

NO!

go from there..

[BEEN THERE]

She Is Wanting Somthing Diff It Would Help Your Marriage If U Had A Female Alos Involved Not A Man For Her.

[Molly]

It is impossible to permit wife to have sex with other man. It seems she had already been betrayed you and now she wants to justify it in this way. Take care. If you can not cope with you better leave her.

[48421724517587]

I dont agree. Allowing you wife to have other men/women and for her to allow you to have other women/men can be very good.
ONLY if you have a strong and trusting marriage though, any doubts and things could get nasty. If you have a strong marriage where you trust each other 100%, this can help play a major positive role. Talking and being open about everything is very important, and will build to an even stronger sexual relationship between you both.

The reason I mentioned men and women for you both is a strang and complex one, but if your willing to try it you will open your eyes to pleasures you both have never experience. Being involved in group sex can be a very bonding experience.

Remember though, only if you have 100% trust.

[Kate]

Surely if you have that strong a marriage you wouldn't want to have sex with anyone else!

[chrissiesnook]

I don't like to say this, but I was in the same position as your wife about 13 years ago with my first husband. I had married him from my parents home and he was the only man I had slept with. After nearly 20 years of marriage I started to wonder what it would be like. Unfortunately I made the mistake of finding out for myself what it would be like. It was different but certainly not better. What it did do though is eventually break my marriage up! My husband was working away at the time so it was easy for me, but it was dangerous, very dangerous and I now regret it.

Perhaps that is why I am being punished now. Who knows!

Chrissie

[Claire]

me again :) you're not being punished Chrissie...it's just happening...nothing you did years ago to a different man has caused this to happen now....don't make yourself feel worse for goodness sake.