sad in a marriage

[Unregistered]

my husband of 8 years just wont talk to me. its very uncomfortable. i try to talk. he dosent want to talk period. i leave little notes, and nothing. how could a person who once loved you not want to talk about anything? so confused, lost, and sad.

[Kate]

Do you not have any idea what started this, since you don't seem to be saying this has gone on all your married life?

Will he listen to you when you talk? Does he give you his attention? Is there something in particular that you want to talk about?

Is he tired and needing his space after work? Could you take him out for a meal or go for a walk together or go and see a movie - do something together where you don't have to talk a lot?

Kate

[David Harris]

leaving notes won't help much. give him a hug from time to time and see how you get on

[hold_your_ground]

if you didn't do anything to hurt him and he won't talk to you for no reason he's being ridiculous. He needs to talk to someone else professionally. FAST