Unregistered
27th February 2004, 04:41 AM
My husband and I have been married for 7 months. Not a very long time at all. It has been up and down since we got married. He has told me a few times that he wants a divorce every time once I agreed he changed his mind came around and things were great. We are both in the military and live in the UK. My husband hates it here, has no friends whuch causes him to be depressed. We had a fight the other day over stupid things as ususal. I figured we'd get over it and it would be no big deal. The next day he was still mad and lashed out at me. I didn't really help the situation but I have let him walk on me about things before and for once I wasn't going to let this happen. When I stood my ground he grabbed me pulled me to the ground and pulled my hair. In the midst of things something hit me in the back of the head...his hand, elbow, or head. I was devistated that I was just being mouthy and he got physical. I did what anyone would do, I called the police. My husband left after the incident and was called to the police station. He was read his rights and a 30 day no contact order was rendered. We had a counseling appointment that I thought was to talk about what happened but to my suprise was to talk about dividing our things. He wouldn't talk to me, look at me or explain anything to me. I understand he is upset. This doesn't follow him and he probably won't even get into any trouble. It was an isolated incident and I know in my heart he didn't mean to hurt me. I love him and I know he loves me. He says he wants a divorce no questions asked but I was wondering if there is any way he will ever change his mind or if there is something I can do to fix what I have caused.