SSmith1
30th November 2003, 09:49 PM
Prayers needed. I know God can change anything any time he wants. Aug 2002 my husband came home from work after acting very strange for a few weeks. I thought part of it was the new job and that his dad was ill. Later I found out my husband had meet a woman at his new job. I know now I wasn't paying enough attention to him. I was in a depression over the loss of my mother and was having a real difficult time dealing with the loss. But at this point we had been married almost 19 years and we had a good marriage so I thought. He was a Royal Ranger Leader at our church. He was a good husband for the most part and a loving, caring dad to our children. Well within a few weeks of this new job he started coming home later and finally I asked him what was going on and point blank if the was involved with another woman. He really didn't answer me at that moment. Within an hour he was gone. He took appox. $1500. we had been saving and got on his motorcycle and left without a word to me. Later I found out that there was indeed a woman. And she worked were he did. She had been living with a man who drove truck for a living and was gone a lot of the time. But that wasn't all this woman had a second job. A night time job. Prostitution. Also she is very attracted to married men and enjoys the thrill of breaking up marriages. My children and I have been in so much pain since all this has happened. My husband can not see that he has a family that needs him. Nor does he seem to care. He also doesn't seem to see what all this is doing to his life. The only one who is important to him is himself. His children will not have anything to do with him as long as he is living with this woman. He claims that she is a changed woman now that she is with him. He turned his back on the church and no matter what anyone says to him he is totally blind. I still love the man he use to be and know that he can be again. I have started the divorce but I really don't want it. But I can't continue to live like this either. I am in total conflict. Part of me is saying move on with my life and yet at the same time a part of me is saying not to go threw with this divorce. My youngest son (age 13)told me a few weeks ago that he has been praying about this and feels God has told him that his family is going to be back together. Is this just a child wishing for something or has God really told him something. I need to know what to do. I want to do whatever is the will of God. Please pray for my family. And pray that God gives me the wisdow to do whatever it is I need to do. And pray for my husband that he sees what his actions are doing to his family and himself. Also pray for this woman to let her see what her actions are doing to her life and her children and to all the other people that she has hurt. Pray for her salvation.