Don't know what to do.

[Unregistered]

My husband is not coping too well with our 3 children aged 8,4,3.
He just gets so stressed out all the time.He takes his moods out on me and is mentally abusive and has been physically abusive once,whilst drunk.
I do love him but I am so unhappy and have told him I want to end the marriage on several occassions.

This has been going on for so long and I just can't see an end to it.
Don't know what to do,would love to get out of it.

[Kate]

Why not have a look at our section on domestic violence (http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/marriageclinic/womenrisk/) to see if you can get some expert advice. Is he willing to go and get some help with his drinking?

Do take care of yourself. If you think that you and the children are in any danger, please find somewhere to go - family, friends or a refuge until you can sort something out between you and get him to seek some help.

Kate