Should I confront her?

[Unregistered]

Its really killing me day by day. I know my wife fancied someone at work and now she confided to a friend she still thinks about him a lot.I know nothing is going between them,but the fact that she thinks about someone else a lot makes me feel used and inadequate.

I cannot confront her ,she is not in the best health,she suffers from depression and panick attacks.I do not want to make health worse by trying to sort my jealousy issue, that would be too selfish on my part.

In the meantime I am feeling withdrawn and I am losing Trust and faith in her, but still pretend to be close to her, in the hope that I can work out how to break the news if need be and work things out between us to make our relationship everlasting.

We have been happily married for 7 years and we love each other very much,but I feel weak now and confused now and desperately need help

Thanks
DK

[smity]

Communicate. My marriage is ending because my husband and I never spoke about how we felt inside for fear it would hurt the other. Because of that he kept how he felt inside became unhappy with me and then fell out of love. What if he and I had spoken to each other about how we really felt. Would that love still be there. If she gets depressed easy, seek counseling as a couple for both the depression and how you feel inside. Don't keep it bottled up. It will only push you further apart.